The Deterioration of Somizi and Unathi's Friendship

Aiden AbrahamsAiden Abrahams3 min read421
The Deterioration of Somizi and Unathi’s Friendship

Television personalities Somizi Mhlongo and Unathi Nkayi's friendship was once an inseparable bond that extended beyond their roles as judges on the popular South African talent show, Idols SA. However, their friendship took a turn for the worse, and the fallout left their fans baffled and the entertainment industry buzzing.

Television personalities Somizi Mhlongo and Unathi Nkayi’s friendship was once an inseparable bond that extended beyond their roles as judges on the popular South African talent show, Idols SA. However, their friendship took a turn for the worse, and the fallout left their fans baffled and the entertainment industry buzzing.

A Once Strong Bond

The camaraderie between Somizi and Unathi was apparent not only on the Idols SA set but also in their personal lives. Together, they enjoyed quality time away from the limelight, sharing their experiences on social media.

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Tension and Betrayal

But tensions began to surface when Unathi’s marriage to Thomas Msengana ended in divorce. According to Unathi, Somizi sided with her ex-husband, straining their friendship. Despite maintaining a professional demeanor while working alongside Somizi on Idols SA, Unathi felt betrayed by her former friend’s actions.

The Disintegration of the Friendship

As the situation deteriorated, Unathi publicly declared that she was no longer friends with Somizi. To emphasize her stance, she removed all photos of the two together from her social media profiles. In a passionate statement, she drew parallels between her ordeal and the R. Kelly scandal, imploring her friends to cease playing the disgraced singer’s music in her presence.

Somizi’s Response

Somizi remained silent for months amidst the ongoing drama. Finally, however, he addressed the issue on his television show, Living The Dream With Somizi. Expressing his shock and disappointment at the way their friendship had crumbled, Somizi emphasized that he had no desire to rekindle his relationship with Unathi. He maintained that he would continue to work with her if required but would fiercely protect his personal space.

The Severe Rift

Somizi’s unwavering resolve to avoid further contact with Unathi extended beyond the professional sphere. He asserted that he would never speak to her again, even though they would continue to work together on Idols SA. Somizi’s firm stance highlights the severity of the rift between the former friends, a situation that has left fans and colleagues in the entertainment industry disheartened.

The Fragility of Relationships in the Entertainment Industry

The fractured friendship of Somizi and Unathi serves as a cautionary tale, illustrating the fragility of relationships in the entertainment world. Theirs was a bond that seemed unbreakable, yet it fell apart amid a maelstrom of accusations and betrayals, leaving in its wake a trail of hurt and disappointment.

Hope for Growth and Learning

As the dust continues to settle, the once-glowing friendship between Somizi and Unathi serves as a reminder of the transient nature of human connections. We can only hope that this experience helps both parties grow, learn, and ultimately emerge stronger, despite the emotional turmoil they have endured.

Aiden Abrahams
Aiden Abrahams

Aiden Abrahams is a Cape Town-based journalist who chronicles the city’s shifting political landscape for the Weekend Argus and Daily Maverick. Whether tracking parliamentary debates or tracing the legacy of District Six through his family’s own displacement, he roots every story in the voices that braid the Peninsula’s many cultures. Off deadline you’ll find him pacing the Sea Point promenade, debating Kaapse klopse rhythms with anyone who’ll listen.

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